Abraham Lincoln once said "How many legs does a dog have if you call the tail a leg?"... Well, most people would answer "five". In reality, just because you call its tail a leg, it doesn"t change the fact - the dog still has four legs. But because you assume it has five, you will think as if the dog has five legs. We make the same types of assumptions about everything else. Some of them are true, some (most) aren"t. And then we think, feel, talk and behave as if all of them would be true. These assumptions are called beliefs. Here's the most dangerous limiting belief that can ruin your love life after a bad break-up: "You can find true love only once in a lifetime." The assumption of this belief is that the first time when you feel something deep and true for a man is the only time when you can have that feeling. This implies that what you felt for the first man you loved you will never feel again for any other man you'll be with in the future. The further implications are heartbreaking because this means that you had one chance for true love and it's gone, never to return. With such a deeply held belief, you can be more spiritual than Gandhi and still experience a very intense feeling of loss after a bad break-up. This belief alone can literally ruin your life if you've been in love with a man and he broke-up with you at one point. But, fortunately, beliefs are not a reality, even though we feel as if they are. They're just what We believe to be true. As long as you have this belief, you'll go through a lot of unnecessary suffering and maybe even become disappointed with life in general. If you don't want to ruin your entire love life, then you must do one of these two things: let go of this limiting belief or, if you can't do that, find a way around it.
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