You might be scratching your head, trying to figure out if there is anyway that you can get women to approach you. Celebrity guys, they have no problem with having women approach them, but what about an average, regular guy like yourself? Is it possible that you can get women to approach you? Yes, it can be done. The thing about getting women to approach you is, you cannot expect it to happen all of the time. After it happens, it can actually become kind of a crutch, because then you kind of expect that women should just start walking up to you, and that ain't going to happen every day of the week. That is unless of course, you happen to play pro ball or you are about to star in the next big blockbuster out in Hollywood. So, don't get the impression that you will be able to saunter into any club that you want and have beautiful women just drape themselves all over you. Maybe when you close your eyes, but not in the real world. Still, it can happen from time to time and you can kind of make it happen as much as possible. Here's how to get women to approach you: 1. Stand out from the crowd. If a woman is going to approach you, then she has to notice you first, right? That makes sense to you, right? Well, next time you go out, take a real look at yourself and every other guy around you and see if you stand out in any way. If not, then you are going to have to work on this. One way that a lot of pick up artists swear by is to "peacock" or wear something that catches attention. And that does work, as long as it is not something that just looks ridiculous. Also, women pay attention to guys that stand out socially. So, if you are used to being the "quiet guy," then you need to nip that in the bud right now. 2. Social proof your way to become a "magnet" for female attention. Women love to lust after guys that are with other beautiful women. Of course, they kind of keep that to themselves, but if you are ever out with a group of females, pay attention. Usually when a guy pops in with a really gorgeous girl or group of girls with him, all the women take a peak. They call this social proof and it works like a charm. Women look at you being with other women, especially attractive women, and they automatically make the link in their mind that you must be something special. So, next time you go out, bring along the prettiest woman that you know and you will attract a lot of female eyes. 3. Open up your body language to receive her. When you want to have a woman approach you, you have to send her some body language signals. Women pick up on this stuff, they really don't have to learn it. It's almost like it's embedded in the female DNA. When your body language is open, it sends the message that you are definitely approachable. As your eyes make contact with hers, hold her in a gaze for a few seconds and give a brief smile. This basically reassures her that you have no problems at all with her coming over to you. The eye contact is important and it's something that you might have to work on a little. The smile has to be almost mischievous, like you are "daring" her to come over and talk to you.
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