There should be no secret to how to win your ex girlfriend back if you were in your right mind but at the moment you’re not. You’re a mess and there will probably come a day when you will be embarassed by how you’ve been acting if you already aren’t. Once you understand a few things you will realize what an idiot you’ve been being and hopefully you’ll be on the right track to winning her back. If you’re a typical guy you’re pretty much clueless as far as how to win your ex girlfriend back. You’ve tried begging her for another chance, pleading for her to change her mind and maybe you’ve even let her see you cry as you told her that you loved her. Maybe you even had friends who told you that you should talk things through or that you should trying being really nice or romantic to get her back. As you probably guessed, these things never work and they actually do more harm than good in the long run if you really had hoped to get her back. Leave the romantic stuff for after you get her back and you are looking for a little lovin’. Female Psychology For Dummies †The first thing you need to know about female psychology and your ex girlfriend in particular, it is that all of that wussy stuff like being romantic or talking about your feelings is killing your chances of getting her back right now. These things make her lose respect for you as a guy. In addition, if she wanted to work things out with you she would have asked to meet with you so she could talk about getting back together. But she isn’t talking about getting back together, is she? She broke up with you so deal with it and learn how to make her want you again and talking about the problems isn’t going to bring that about. Think about when you first got together. Did you have to beg her to fall in love with you? Did you plead with her to hang out with you? Chances are the answer is no. She wanted to hang out with you and spend time with you because you were cool and fun and she admired you. You made her feel things†the feelings that every woman desires. You made her feel something positive emotionally and she wanted more of that. She was attracted to you and she saw something in you that she didn’t see in other guys and that was why she wanted to be around you. It was all about the emotions. These days you’re making her feel things emotionally but not in a good way. She might look at you as pathetic and needy and weak. You are a pain and she might even feel sick to her stomach any time you try to contact her and she might even be avoiding you because you are coming off so weak and needy. If you want know the one key element for how to win your ex girlfriend back it is changing her perception of you from weak and needy back to that cool guy that makes her feel those emotions that no other guy could make her feel. To wash away the damage that you have done so far the best thing that you can do is nothing. That means no contacting her, no calling her, no texting her, no nothing for a while. Don’t freak out and think that she is going to think that you don’t love her anymore. Actually, that is the objective! Time will do its thing and she will see that your insanity was only temporary and she will wonder what’s up with you. She will begin to forget about all the wussy stuff that you did right after the breakup and she might even reach out to you. In time she will begin to remember the good stuff and how you made her feel. Women reminisce a lot and if you aren’t making her feel dread from hearing from you and she’s also not feeling those positive emotions from hearing from you, she will begin to dream of what it was like when things were good between you. Why It Works †While female psychology might seem a little crazy to you it is the most effective way possible of winning your ex girlfriend back. You see, women are ruled by their emotions. Just think, a woman will pay several hundred dollars for a pair of shoes that make her feel sexy even though she doesn’t really have the money for them. Don’t you think that it’s possible then for her to forget about all the garbage from your past if you know how to hit those emotional buttons that make her feel half a dozen different emotions that she craves? A woman’s emotions will over-rule her mind every time if you hammer on those emotions hard enough. Some of this stuff is going to be a little counter-intuitive to you and you’re going to think that you’re doing the wrong thing or that it’s all going to backfire on you but think of it this way. How have things worked out so far? Are you any closer to getting her back or have things gotten worse using all those other popular methods? And even if you did get her back by promising and begging and pleading, where would you stand? She would have the upper hand in the relationship and the minute a real man came along that she respected she would dump you again and tell herself that she gave you that second chance and it didn’t work out. Typically, guys that go against the tide and use these methods are so blown away by the results that they think that there must be something wrong with their ex. They think that something must be up or that it’s a trap but the truth is that by messing with her mind and using emotional tactics you will have your ex sniffing around before you know it and eventually begging you for a second chance if you play things out the way you should. So, if you really want to know how to get your exgifriend back the answer is by using female psychology and by using her emotions against her.
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