I know that when I broke up from my boyfriend I thought about getting back together several times a day. Sound familiar? All breakups are different, but here\'s some advice if you’re going through relationship problems like this.rnrnFirst of all, don\'t be unpleasant. I know you\'re upset, but nagging and complaining are probably the worst things you can do. You\'ll only drive him further away. Try to be as nice as you can, unless you feel like a total phony. If the only way you can be nice is to fake it, then maybe you should find someone who doesn\'t make you feel like you have to pretend.rnrnKeeping things pleasant makes the problems you had before seem not so important. It\'s often a good idea to tell him that you\'re guilty of taking him for granted. But don\'t expect him to admit that he took you for granted--at least not yet.rnrnBut what if your ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend? This is a tough situation, but it\'s even more important than ever to remain pleasant. If you show him how great you are, you\'ll plant the seed in his head that maybe breaking up with you was a mistake. Personally, this was the best advice I ever got on how to deal with relationship problems like this.rnrnOn the other hand, if you\'re seeing somebody else just to make your ex jealous, it could backfire. It might make him think you\'re over the relationship. \"Well, I guess that\'s that!\" he\'ll think and move on. It\'s also not fair to the person you\'re seeing. Men don\'t like women who play games like this.rnrnIt\'s also important not to lie to or trick your ex-boyfriend. It might work in the short run, but what if he finds out about it later (and he\'s likely to). Well, now you\'ve lost him again! Probably for good this time. Deception is never a good idea.rnrnAfter my boyfriend and I broke up, I wanted to nag, I wanted to make him jealous, and I wanted to lie to him so he\'d come back. Luckily, I took the advice of T \"Dub\" Jackson instead. He wrote a wonderful book called \"The Magic of Making Up.\" The techniques and strategies you\'ll find here are priceless. And I\'ve never seen them anywhere else.rnrnListen, we all go through relationship problems. Breakups are emotional roller coasters and we usually end up saying and doing the exact wrong things. I\'m really very thankful for \"The Magic of Making Up.\" Now my boyfriend and I are more in love than ever.
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